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A short story

Once upon a time there was a couple –  a man & a woman – and they had each other…  After a long time they became three and they had you! Now they have Everything!!!

“A New Baby is like the beginning of all things: wonder, hope, a dream of possibilities”

– Eda J. Leshan

A new baby girl came to our lives and we are truly happy.  That is the reason of my long absence from writing posts! As a new mother I needed time to adjust and spend a lot of time with my newborn baby.

Love lock

When I was walking around Bratislava, I passed through a small pedestrian bridge – before the entrance of the old town at Michael’s gate. On the railings I saw a lot of lockers with some initials and hearts on them. I saw the same thing on a platform near the river Danube. So I took some pictures and as soon as I got home, I searched for information about that habit.

love padlocks

And here’s what I found

A love lock or love padlock is a padlock which couples lock to a bridge, fence or a gate  to symbolize their love. Usually the names or initials of the couple are written on the padlock, and its key is thrown away to symbolize unbreakable and everlasting love.

History

The history behind that tradition comes from a sad tale located in Serbia at least 100 years ago, and it refers to the Bridge of Love (Most Ljubavi) in the town of Vrnjačka Banja.

And the story goes like this:

Nada, a local schoolmistress, fell in love with a Serbian officer named Relja. After they committed to each other, he went to war in Greece (World War I),  where he fell in love with a local woman from Corfu. As a consequence, they broke off their engagement. Nada never recovered from that  devastating blow and after some time she died due to a heartbreak from her unfortunate love.

love padlocks

So young women from Vrnjačka Banja who wanted to protect their own love, started writing their names together with the names of their loved ones on padlocks and place them to the railings of the bridge where Nada and Relja used to meet. The keys are thrown into the river below, so they cannot be found ever again. And  evidently the bridge acquired the name Bridge of Love.

In the rest of Europe, love padlocks started appearing in the early 2000s.